With the right process, buying your wedding dress off the rack can be the best decision
What makes a wedding dress unforgettably beautiful is that it captures you. Although there may be more than one of a dress you find on the rack, when it captures your features and style in the way you want, it becomes a one-of-a-kind look. You make your dress memorable.
Unfortunately, the wedding dress industry isn’t always concerned about you. That’s why it can feel like the odds are stacked against you when you’re trying to buy a wedding dress off the rack.
Maybe you don’t know what you want. You’ve been poking around online, but the choices are overwhelming and personalized help is limited, if it even exists. Or, you’ve been to some bridal shops, but they all feel the same. The sales staff are pushy and don’t seem to care how you feel about the dresses they offer. As far as they’re concerned, any dress you plan to buy now looks wonderful.
Whether this is relatable or you’re lucky enough to be at the beginning of your wedding dress shopping, VIERO has put together a simple process you can use to find the best off-the-rack wedding dress for you.
How to Find the Best Off-the-Rack Wedding Dress
1.Understand your wedding dress logistics
To find the best dress for you, first think about the context you’ll wear it in.
Your Wedding Day
Before you start thinking about wedding dress styles, it’s important to understand any limitations your wedding day might pose on your fashion choices. Think about your wedding location, timing and activities. Are there any dress styles or features that won’t work, or that might work better, because of things like weather, dance choreography or outdoor obstacles?
Even though you may instinctively think about what does or doesn’t look good on you, you may not know why you think that. Being specific about which of your features you want to highlight or downplay makes it easier to find a wedding dress you feel looks the best. It’s also helpful when you’re trying to choose between two dresses you like that emphasize your features differently.
Keep in mind that body features aren’t just legs or curves. They include things you might not think about as often like tattoos and height.
2.Figure out what you want in a wedding dress
To discover what you like, search for inspiration. Then evaluate it and learn.
One of the biggest problems brides face when shopping for a wedding dress is understanding what they might like and how to describe it to a salesperson. Figuring out what you want and learning the lingo for styles, cuts and materials you like is easier than you think. Just follow this process.
Keeping in mind your wedding dress logistics, search for wedding dress pictures online, in magazines or wherever you might find inspiration. The goal is to find dresses that you like on some level. You don’t need to like the whole dress. For instance, you may like the material it’s made of, but you don’t like the neckline. You might like how it fits, but its train is too long. Maybe you like the whole dress but wish it were ivory instead of bright white.
Also, don’t forget about accessories. If there is a major accessory you plan to wear, such as a veil or shawl, make sure you find pictures of ones you like, and think about how the accessory would work with the dress styles you gravitate toward.
Put your photos in a sharable form like Pinterest. If you have any paper photos, place them in a folder you can bring with you as you shop for your wedding dress.
Evaluate and Learn
Once you’ve gathered many photos, or while you’re gathering them, take notes on your specific likes for each dress and accessory picture. Sort them into categories the represent the best of what you liked: materials you like best, shapes you like best, cuts you like best, etc. Ideally, you assemble enough pictures to cover the major categories: length, shape, cut, color, materials, key features (open back, train, etc.)
Review your best-of categories and figure out how to describe what you want in each category. For instance, you may notice all the material you like is lacey and it’s all a similar lace. Try to find out if it has a specific name. This works best with online pictures. Usually, you can find a useful description if you return to the website where you found the picture.
Remember to write down the terminology you find to describe your likes. You can also use this terminology to google more images, which can help you find a dress that incorporates multiple features you want.
Set Priorities You Can Share
Now that you’ve sorted out what you like, it’s time to prioritize your wants in a shareable list.
Jot down a few bullets about your wedding day logistics and body features you want to show off or downplay.
Now add any must-haves to the list. For instance, the dress must be a bright white.
Then list your top want from each of your best-of categories along with a runner up, if you had one. For instance, you really like an open back, but you’d consider a strapless dress too.
Make sure your list includes any wedding dress terminology you learned. Also, keep in mind which pictures you would show someone if they asked about a specific thing you like.
3.Find a wedding dress shop that wants to help you
Use what you’ve learned to get help from a wedding dress shop that cares about what you like.
Once you’ve completed the previous steps, you’ll know when a salesperson is truly knowledgeable and is trying to help you achieve your goals, not theirs. You’ll have more confidence about what’s right for you.
Share your priorities with the salespeople you meet. If they don’t understand the terminology, or they bring you something that doesn’t align at all with your priorities, you know they aren’t qualified or aren’t listening. Try another shop.
Look for wedding dress shops that offer personalized service. At VIERO, this means you book an appointment to shop at our flagship boutiques. When you arrive, you have the full attention of someone who will listen your priorities and who understands how to translate your likes into off-the-rack dress choices that can be that unforgettable dress.
Without the help of someone more experienced in wedding dresses, it can be difficult to look at a wedding dress on a rack and see how it captures what you want. You risk overlooking your best option and never trying it on.
Another thing to look for in a wedding dress shop is how they advertise themselves. If the styles they advertise don’t align with what you like, they probably can’t help you. Don’t waste your time.
Look for shops that offer quality over quantity. Having hundreds of poor-quality choices doesn’t help you get the best off-the-rack wedding dress. At VIERO, we’re thoughtful about the wedding dress styles we carry in our flagship boutiques whether they are our own or from another designer. We curate the best of fresh and modern styles, including both new trends and modernized classics. This allows us to vet each dress to ensure the best craftmanship and the most thoughtful designs.
Remember You Make Your Wedding Dress Unforgettable
Once you figure out what you like, and you put that in the context of you and your wedding, finding an off-the-rack wedding dress you love is possible. But remember you need a process to make this happen. And that process needs to include you, your priorities, and someone who is experienced enough to listen to what you want and help you find it.